Once your child is diagnosed, not only do you have to cope with your child's feelings about this but yours as well.
What do parents feel once their child has been diagnosed with ADD /ADHD?
Surprisingly, the most prevalent feelings parents had after ADHD diagnosis was – RELIEF!
Do you find that hard to believe? That’s understandable, but
it’s true. Why?
The sense of relief came from knowing that there was a medical reason for
their child’s behavior and/academic failure, and that it wasn't their fault.
It wasn't poor parenting skills, they were not bad parents (even though some may have suggested that). Mothers are especially prone to these feelings of maternal guilt.
Many parents were also relieved that they were not alone. For some, it even gave them insight as to how they behaved when they were a child. Perhaps one (or both) of these parents have ADD /ADHD and didn't know it... up till now.
Of course, along with that relief came another feeling –helplessness.
Many parents report that they felt completely alone and deprived of information or support for this new and challenging aspect of their lives. Forums and support groups abound on the internet. It's wonderful to have a chance to communicate with other parents who are facing the same challenges as you.
My 2 favorite forums are www.addforums.com
and the Bella Online ADD Forum
Most parents when told their child was suffering
with ADD/ADHD are sent home with a prescription without any
clues as to what their rights were, where to find help and
support and what to expect.
Many parents have questions and they want - and deserve- answers.
Questions such as
- Will my child ever grow out of it?
- What are the treatment options?
- How do I know what's best for my child?
It's vital that you educate yourself, so that you make the best decision for your child.
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